maymaym
maymaym
Asking a Dom if you can speak to a submissive is like asking a man if you can speak to a woman beside him is.gd/ZXzAnP #BDSM #sexism
Graydancer
Gray Miller
@maymaym whereas speaking directly to a s who is in high-protocol is like grabbing someone's shoulder & asking "can I touch you?"
@maymaym whereas speaking directly to a s who is in high-protocol is like grabbing someone's shoulder & asking "can I touch you?"
maymaym
maymaym
@Graydancer Frak this "high protocol" bullshit. It's code for non-consent in exactly the ways YKINMKBYKIOK is—that analogy's pathetic. #BDSM
@Graydancer Frak this "high protocol" bullshit. It's code for non-consent in exactly the ways YKINMKBYKIOK is—that analogy's pathetic. #BDSM
Graydancer
Gray Miller
@maymaym So you're saying that people do not have the right to choose their relationship structure? I'm confused at that attitude.
@maymaym So you're saying that people do not have the right to choose their relationship structure? I'm confused at that attitude.
Graydancer
Gray Miller
@maymaym I have, actually, they're old links. This is a different issue, IMO, but thanks for the input, regardless.
@maymaym I have, actually, they're old links. This is a different issue, IMO, but thanks for the input, regardless.
maymaym
maymaym
@Graydancer Oh! Where'd you find thirdxlucky.wordpress.com/2012/03/16/thi…? I'm curious; I never linked it before! /cc @WanderingPirate SA twitter.com/DDog/status/22…
@Graydancer Oh! Where'd you find thirdxlucky.wordpress.com/2012/03/16/thi…? I'm curious; I never linked it before! /cc @WanderingPirate SA twitter.com/DDog/status/22…