sexgeekAZ Andrea Zanin
Thought-provoking poly keynote by @maymaym. maybemaimed.com/2012/03/10/fro… The dominance=oppression bit seems anti-kink but surely isn't meant to be?

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maymaym maymaym
@sexgeekAZ :) Me? "Anti-kink"? Why, what gave you that impression? Read the section abt "the power I derived" again. SA maybemaimed.com/2012/03/02/hel…

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sexgeekAZ Andrea Zanin
@maymaym Gotcha. But the dominance=oppression part reads as though it were about individual practice, not Scene structure... ?

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maymaym maymaym
@sexgeekAZ That's due to #domism; it's why I will NOT "submit" to 99.99% of people who identify as "dominant"; it's what The Scene obscures.

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sexgeekAZ Andrea Zanin
@maymaym Sorry, not quite following. What's the "that" that's due to domism? ... Mebbe this discussion isn't well suited to 140-char notes!

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maymaym maymaym
@sexgeekAZ You're right, not good for 140chars. :) My takeaway: domism—systemic dominance—UNDERPINS sexism/racism/etc. not other way around.

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sexgeekAZ Andrea Zanin
@maymaym I think they support one another mutually. But anyway, next time we're in the same place, let's have lunch and yak about it. :)

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maymaym maymaym
@sexgeekAZ Yeah, they all support each other. See, for instance, Donna Haraway's "Cat's Cradle": facebook.com/meitar.moscovi… Still, it's a fractal.

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